Bali has a way of making people fall in love, with the island and often with each other. Emerald rice terraces, temples above the waves, offerings of flowers on every doorstep and sunsets that turn the whole sky orange: the “Island of the Gods” in Indonesia is one of the most popular destinations for couples in the world. In this guide we show you the most romantic things to do in Bali, and how to find quiet moments on an island that can get very busy.
You will also find tips on where to stay, what to eat, the best time to visit and what to know about dating and relationships in Indonesia.
Why Bali is perfect for couples
Bali offers an unusual mix. You can spend the morning in a jungle valley, the afternoon on a beach and the evening at a temple dance performance, all within a short drive. The island’s Hindu culture shapes everyday life: you will see ceremonies, processions and small offerings called canang sari everywhere, even on the pavement in front of shops.
For couples, Bali is also very easy. Villas with private pools, spa treatments for two and candlelit dinners on the beach are much more affordable than in many other destinations.
Sights that make your heart beat faster
These four places show the many faces of Bali, from rice fields to sea temples. Visit early in the morning to enjoy them in peace.
More romantic things to do in Bali
Watch the sunset at Tanah Lot
Tanah Lot is a temple built on a rock in the sea on Bali’s west coast. At high tide it seems to float on the water. In the late afternoon, couples gather on the cliffs to watch the sun set behind it. You can read more about its history on Wikipedia.
See the Kecak fire dance at Uluwatu
The Uluwatu temple stands on a cliff about 70 metres above the Indian Ocean. Every evening, dancers perform the Kecak dance at sunset, accompanied only by the rhythmic chanting of dozens of men. The setting is breathtaking. Watch out for the monkeys, who love sunglasses and phones.
Spend a few days in Ubud
Ubud, in the hills of central Bali, is the island’s cultural heart. Walk along the Campuhan Ridge in the early morning, visit the Tegallalang rice terraces, take a cooking class or a yoga lesson together and end the day with a massage. The town is surrounded by jungle, rivers and small villages.
Take a sunrise hike up Mount Batur
For adventurous couples, the hike up the Batur volcano is unforgettable. You start in the dark at around 4 am and reach the top just in time to watch the sun rise over the lake and the neighbouring volcano, Mount Agung. Book a licensed local guide.
Bathe in the holy water of Tirta Empul
At the Tirta Empul water temple, locals come to purify themselves in spring-fed pools. Visitors can take part if they wear a sarong and follow the rituals. Ask for guidance on the right order of the fountains and respect the sacred place.
Escape to the Nusa islands
Nusa Penida, Nusa Lembongan and Nusa Ceningan are a short boat ride from Bali. They are known for dramatic cliffs, crystal clear water and snorkelling with manta rays. Lembongan is quieter and perfect for a romantic night or two.
Hidden gems off the beaten path
- Sidemen: A green valley in the east with rice fields, weavers and views of Mount Agung, much quieter than Ubud.
- Amed: A string of fishing villages on the north-east coast, with black sand beaches and great snorkelling.
- Jatiluwih rice terraces: Huge terraces in the west, part of a UNESCO World Heritage site, and far less crowded than Tegallalang.
- Munduk: A cool mountain village with waterfalls, coffee plantations and misty lakes.
Romantic restaurants and Balinese food
Bali is full of great places to eat, from small local warungs to elegant restaurants. Try babi guling (roast suckling pig), bebek betutu (slow-cooked spiced duck), nasi campur (rice with several small dishes) and fresh tropical fruit. For dessert, try dadar gulung, green pancakes filled with coconut and palm sugar.
For a romantic evening, book a seafood dinner on the beach at Jimbaran, where tables are set on the sand at sunset, or a restaurant overlooking the jungle in Ubud.
Best time to visit Bali as a couple
The dry season from April to October is the most popular time, with sunshine and less humidity. April, May, June and September are often ideal: good weather and fewer crowds than in July and August. The rainy season from November to March brings heavy but usually short showers, green landscapes and lower prices. Bali’s most important holiday, Nyepi, the Day of Silence, usually takes place in March: the whole island, including the airport, stops for 24 hours.
Where to stay in Bali
Ubud is perfect for culture, jungle views and wellness. Seminyak and Canggu are lively, with beach clubs, cafés and restaurants. Uluwatu offers dramatic cliffs and quieter luxury hotels. Sanur is calm and relaxed. Many couples split their trip between the hills and the coast.
Dating in Indonesia: what to know
Indonesia is the world’s largest Muslim-majority country, while Bali has a Hindu majority. Dating customs can vary a lot depending on religion, region and family. A few things that help:
- Family and community matter. Decisions about relationships often involve the family.
- Politeness is important. Indonesians often avoid direct confrontation. A gentle “maybe” can mean no.
- Public affection is limited. Holding hands is generally fine in tourist areas, but be discreet elsewhere.
- Learn a few words of Bahasa Indonesia. Terima kasih means thank you, and a smile is always welcome.
Our guide on love across cultures has more tips for relationships between different cultures. And if you live far apart, read how to make a long-distance relationship work.
Absolute must-do
Walk through the Tegallalang rice terraces at sunrise, then share a fresh coconut on a swing above the valley.
Only here: Bali’s rice terraces are watered by subak, a cooperative irrigation system dating back to the 9th century and linked to the island’s water temples. It is recognised by UNESCO as part of Bali’s cultural landscape.
Tip for your first date
Meet at a café in Ubud in the late afternoon, then walk together along the Campuhan Ridge as the sun goes down. For more ideas, read our 12 tips for the perfect first date.
Staying safe in Bali
Bali is generally safe for visitors. Be careful on the roads: traffic is chaotic, and many accidents involve tourists on scooters. Only rent one if you have a valid licence and experience. Respect temple rules, dress modestly at religious sites and drink bottled or filtered water. If you are meeting someone you met online, choose a public place. Our safety tips help you date with confidence.
FAQ: Bali for couples
Is Bali good for a honeymoon?
Yes. Private pool villas, spa treatments, beaches and culture make Bali one of the world’s top honeymoon destinations.
How many days do you need in Bali?
At least a week. That gives you time for Ubud, the coast and a trip to the Nusa islands or the quieter east.
What is the most romantic place in Bali?
Many couples would say the cliffs of Uluwatu at sunset, or a villa with a view over the jungle in Ubud.
How can I meet people from Indonesia?
Indonesians are friendly and curious. International dating lets you get to know someone from Indonesia before your trip.
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