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The right profile photos: how to show your best side

The first photo often decides in seconds. Here’s how to choose pictures that feel likeable, genuine and inviting.

S&VSven & Viviana20. July 2026 · 2 min read

In online dating, your profile photo is your first impression. Before anyone reads your text, they already have a feeling about you. The good news: you don’t need a photo studio – just a few simple ground rules.

The main photo

  • Your face clearly visible: No sunglasses, no hat covering your eyes.
  • A real smile: People who look into the camera with a friendly expression seem more approachable.
  • Use daylight: Natural light by a window or outdoors is more flattering than any filter.
  • Alone in the picture: Your first photo should make it clear who you are.

More photos that tell your story

  • A full-body photo in everyday clothes
  • You doing your hobby – cooking, hiking, dancing or making music
  • A travel photo that shows what excites you
  • A picture with friends – but not as your first photo

Tip: Ask a friend which photos show you at your best. Others often see what we overlook ourselves.

What to avoid

  • Heavily edited or filtered pictures
  • Photos that are many years old
  • Blurry or very dark shots
  • Pictures in which an ex can still be seen

Authenticity wins

The goal isn’t to look as perfect as possible, but to look the way you really will at your first meeting. When you show your true self, you attract people who like exactly you – and your first date starts without surprises.

Conclusion

Three to five honest, bright and varied photos are all you need. They show who you are and what you love – and make people curious to know more.

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